Divorcing a narcissist requires a fundamentally different approach than most family law matters. These cases are rarely resolved through cooperation or compromise. Instead, they often involve high-conflict behavior, manipulation, and a refusal to engage in good-faith negotiation.

Control is an illusion that can create more pain and suffering. As someone who has sat on both sides of the negotiating table, I’ve learned that letting go of the need to control is one of the best things you can do for yourself, your children, your divorce, and your life.

"Grey Divorces" are on the rise. The divorce rate in the U.S. for people 50 or older has doubled since 1990. My latest podcast is a conversation with Kimberly Fowler and Daisy Swan, centered around how to live through the Grey Wave, create a purpose-driven life post-divorce, what to consider when remarrying, how to talk to your partner about finances, and more.